Best practices for houseguesters.
Everyone has their own sensibilities, and no one can read minds. These two elements of human nature can set you up for uncomfortable situations when it comes to houseguests. Here are some best practices that apply to just about anyone…I think. I sincerely welcome your remarks and additions. Leave a comment below or send me an email at kiki@mybestguests.com.
For the Host
- Your ultimate responsibility is to the safety and wellbeing of the family and household you have created. This doesn’t mean you can’t be gracious.
- Be mindful of your guest’s resources.
- Give your guest downtime and respect their privacy.
- Be interested and be interesting.
- Be appreciative that your houseguest values your company enough to stay in your home.
- If you are not enjoying the visit, fake it!
For the Houseguest
- Show up.
- Respect your host’s schedule and resources.
- If you are staying more than two nights, provide a meal.
- Give your host downtime and privacy.
- Offer, but do not insist, on helping with household chores such as meal prep and clean up.
- Don’t offer unsolicited decorating or cooking advice.
- Be interested and be interesting.
- Be openly appreciative.
- No whining unless it comes in a bottle.
- If you’re not enjoying the visit, fake it!
In my next posts, I’ll go into more detail about these best practices and will have other topics as well including; host/hostess gifts, houseguesting with children, houseguesting with pets, meals/food, what to have on hand, and electronic etiquette. I’ve decided to turn houseguesting into a verb.
Thanks for visiting,
Kiki